Things do seem different for men and women, but, if the Kinsey research is accurate, not in exactly the ways we expected.
假如金赛的研究结果是准确的,哪怕并不完全符合我们的期望,对男男女女来说,事情也看上去完全不同了。
The survey of couples from the US, Germany, Spain, Japan and Brazil was carried out by researchers from the Kinsey Institute at America's Indiana University.
Just make sure to look away at some point - as Carol Kinsey Goman writes on Forbes, too much eye contact can feel rude or intimidating for the other person.